Not trying to argue here but PLEASE DO NOT DECLAW anything! It's painful and unnecessary. If you are worried about what a cat might claw or scratch then you probably don't want one.Look for a Calico. All Calico's are female, have her spayed. Calico's are also hypoallergenic, so they will not trigger allergies on anyone.
If indoor, declaw the front claws. Love on them and play when they are kittens and you should be fine. We have 2 currently that are 10 years old.
Remember, dogs have Masters, cats have staff......