Gosh Bear, are you really saying that a stranger in your house, not a service guy in a uniform or anything like that, with unknown intentions, should be given the benefit of the doubt as to whether they want to do bodily harm to you or your family? I guess I could ask "what are you doing here, can I get you a drink?". Sorry Bear, not with you on this one. I hope no one on here has to go through that situation.