I disagree.. It's strictly based on situational factors. Both of my parents are on their 3rd marriage. I'm 43 and it's just a matter of putting in the work and caring for the other person enough to put in the time.
As far as the "don't have to be married" to be happy statements go I'll just say that while that works for a few most are just staying in that partial committed pairing so it's easier to get out if needed. That sounds like a defeated plan out of the box. No true commitment if you've always got an escape plan. Just my opinion of course.
That whole men are meant to mate with more than one female blah blah blah crap is just stupid. Anyone who that quotes that isn't doing it in front of their girlfriend or what ever you call the perosn you're living with because I'd say that wouldn't sit well with them.
Point made...both parents are on their 3rd marriage.
So it makes me more committed if I get married? I think not
I have a strong relationship with my boyfriend and we are the best of friends. We do everything together and we enjoy each others company. He's not running away to go do things by himself hiding in his man cave. I'm right there doing stuff like reloading with him
I will say it again...not all couple need to be married. Not all married couples are unhappy. Just some.
Marriage isn't for me.