while in theory this is true in this particular instance the force on the shooter is actually GREATER. when a round is fired in the gun it is pushing with ALL of its force backwards as its actually being held in place, when it hits, most of that force is used to penetrate so actually in most instances you'd have a greater chance of being knocked down from SHOOTING a big gun than being hit by one
Some though is being used to work the action and overcome the weight of the firearm itself. It's also being spread out over a greater area, a grip and two hands or a shoulder.