ODT Brain Trust - dating advice

[InTune]

Fillipino...just pay the family every month

 

[InTune]

Before you take her home for a roll in the hay, give her a crotch check and be up front about it cause it may save you some disappointment later.

Paid my doc a visit to get some of those pills to help me stay in the saddle longer. He took the opportunity to lecture me on safe sex. "I had 6 cases oF V D last week" he says. I'm all better now but I'm jus say'n. Better be careful.

 

[Fatal_Bert]

Read the OP again because it didn't make any sense the first time I read it.

Now I think I get what you're asking, and if you're being serious my advice would be to quit projecting political **** you follow on TV on to normal people like your dates you freaking psychopath

 

[Putnambuck]

If this post starts getting a bunch a serious answers I'm out....

 

[boomer]

My take is get a hoe. I cum you go!

 

[Trailrider]

I am so glad I am not in the dating scene anymore. Left that almost 20 years ago when I met my wife. If we ever got a divorce I'd remain single until the end of my days. I couldn't make it with dating in this age. After I sort through if they're hardcore liberal independent I don't need no man types, I'd still have to figure out if they have a high Snap score, what their Instagram account has, if they have an OnlyFans page, etc. No thanks.

 

[hikingthehills]

That is right, renting is cheaper.
@ARCman47 has some mature ladies if I remember correctly.
Heck, you might get two for the price of one!

STD'S?

 

[LARGO9]

Preface - I am a person of mature years - very mature years. I'm not married, no kids, no financial financial responsibilities other than day to day expenses, reasonably good income, still working.

That said, I do like to indulge myself with a lady friend, usually of equally mature years, in an evening of grown up entertainment, meaning dressing up, a nice dinner at a top rated restaurant, a show somewhere like the Fox, after dinner drinks, and then whatever adventures may come my way.

The problem - I have been following the Fani Willis drama pretty closely. Fani is being lauded as a "strong, independent, black woman". Her motto (for real) is "a man is not a plan, a man is a companion". She and the hired help she has been shagging have traveled on his dime to Napa Valley, Belize, Aruba, a cruise, and according to her, because she is not going to be dependent on any man, being the strong independent woman she is, she has always paid her half of the love jaunts to her honey bunch in cash - often several thousand dollars.

I like strong independent women, so at the as our evenings of the good life are winding down, I have started asking my companion if she considers herself a strong independent woman, (most of them being relatively highly educated, and having good jobs with lots of responsibility) and they usually respond in the affirmative. So I ask them to prove it by giving me half the cost of the evening's entertainment in cash - just so we know where we both stand power wise - i don't want to insult her by assuming the historical role of the dominant male in a developing relationship, and so it's clear that I am not denying her self image as a strong independent woman,

So far, the responses (about 5) have been universally the same, "FU", and it's not meant as an invitation. The evening festivities came to a screeching halt.

Question: For the brain trust, how can I show that I am a sensitive new age man, who wants to affirm my companion's role as a strong independent woman, who does not need the support of man, and only needs a companion?

With your attitude towards dating don't forget to grease your palms, your not looking for a strong independent women your looking to be cheap.

 

[GAGunguy]

Lost me at Fani Willis....

 

[TresMonos]

Really? You thought asking these fine upstanding members of the gun community for dating advice was a good idea?