What do you do?

[CostaRicaBound]

What do you do when someone tells you "If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear"? This someone is who I am planning on marrying (although at this particular moment I am putting that in question). I've sensed this for a while, but now it is coming to a head. Trying to remain level headed and not erupt on her, although every hair is standing on my neck. Your help on this?

 

[Nick_T]

Run now. Marriage isn't worth the headaches.

Nick T

 

[geezer]

Go to Costa Rica without her...Kidding. I have nothing to hide, but I sure don't want a stranger rummaging through my drawers...

 

[Laufen]

She sounds controlling and vindictive.

 

[doubleeaglefan]

Is she suggesting that you have been hiding something? Or is she asking you about your guns?

 

[CostaRicaBound]

She lives in Costa Rica. So that rules that out.

 

[white]

If your having problems now don't rush into marriage would be my advice not gonna get any easier

 

[BackWoods]

Yikes..sounds like a Stage 5 clinger....no disrespect intended, just an opinion..

 

[sig68]

Op explain more

 

[Bear44]

Explain to her that everyone hides things. Even her. If she says she doesn't, point out that she's full of it and then run far away from her.