What do you do?

[BucknBear]

Go with your gut feelings, no marriage is better than alot of trouble later. Best of luck as you ponder your FUTURE!

 

[brzelt]

Like a prospective employer, she (being from a prominent family) may have been covering the bases from her families perspective regarding the
facebook deal.

I have FB and am never one it, but I do like to be able to keep in touch with former Marines and a couple friends. The high school sucks that I
never spoke with back then are another story altogether...

 

[drewga11]

Sorry to high jack here but…

Come back and comment again in 10 years and you'll have a different answer. You and all your military friends are still in deployment and field work. In 10 years that will have changed. I was USMC and was deployed in ODS and can completely understand your reasons but in your 40's much of that has changed and you've moved on to a new stage in your life.

Facebook in the OP's situation had not been explained and is obviously a point of friction (he had to give her his password once already) so I'm pointing pointing out that it has already been an issue and will most likely still be one.

Not quite. I've been retired for 3 years and have several friends who are no longer active as well, but they live in other parts of the country.

As for the OP's situation, I was not disagreeing with you on that. Just saying there are other reasons to still be on FB than the one's you listed and not every guy on FB is there to troll for ass.

 

[Byte Stryke]

But are they good looking?

apparently not...

 

[CostaRicaBound]

Byte Stryke, you're on the right track.....the women in CR look WAAAAY better than even the one pictured.... My GF is a cross between Jessica Beil and Catherine Zeta-Jones. 45 years old with the body of a 28 year old. Not bad for a poor Irish gringo

 

[Byte Stryke]

Byte Stryke, you're on the right track.....the women in CR look WAAAAY better than even the one pictured.... My GF is a cross between Jessica Beil and Catherine Zeta-Jones. 45 years old with the body of a 28 year old. Not bad for a poor Irish gringo

yeah sorry,
Offer redacted, retracted and no longer valid

 

[captdave77]

Forget about hot. Crazy is the issue. It is fine to stick your pecker in crazy but marrying crazy is a whole different story.

I don't know if she is nuttier than squirrel ****, has a guilty conscience, or pure as the driven snow, but you need to know for sure before you seal the deal.

 

[sovietak474u]

Eh no. Explain to her that if you want her to know something then you will tell her. Simple as that.

 

[ARCman47]

It was a comment about my Facebook activity. We've been together long enough, and I don't f*** around at all in any way. I even gave her my FB password a while ago. I have nothing to hide. But I don't want to live in fear that someday I may do something that can be interpreted as something to hide. It screams controlling to me. And, as I said, without buddies or anyone to shoot this sh**pile with, I came here. I just want to approach this in a respectful and well-thought out way, deserving of the respect that our relationship has earned. I had my fly off the handle moment, now it's time to decide how to proceed....

How can i make this any more clear...

 

[Fatal_Bert]

If you have been with her for 3 years and you feel like you could live without her, then you probably should. I'm serious, if after 3 years together if it ain't there it never will be. Only get married if you absolutely feel like you just couldn't live without the girl.