I was happy with her choice. we looked at kel-tec pf9, fnh9, baby eagle II 9, lcr9, the bodyguard, and the last one she looked at was the Kahr and decided on it. She seems to work the slide ok, I think a good cleaning and oil, then about 150rds through it tomorrow with start to loosen her up.
I hope others take notice of the process that you went through to get the right gun for her. The important thing is that SHE is also happy with her choice.
The way you picked it out was a good way to do it. Too many ladies come out to my range with the gun that their husband "chose" for them... & more often than not, it's not the right one for some reason or the other.
I ask the ladies if they would let their husband pick them out a pair of shoes...
Guns, especially ones intended for use in self-defense, are a very personal choice.
No one can tell you what "fits" you but you will know once you try several out.