A 410 for any beginner will be very frustrating. It is a very difficult weapon to master. You would be just as successful throwing the 410 shells at the birds.
Get a Rem 20 ga 1100 light with a short stock. Felt recoil with a shotgun is all in the shouldering of the gun. I would shoot 300 12ga targets a day in skeet practice and never had a bruised or sore shoulder.
You have to lean into the shot, and shoulder firmly, the recoil should be a shove, not a hit or slap. Take an aggressive stance, attack the target, be it clays or live birds.
Get a Rem 20 ga 1100 light with a short stock. Felt recoil with a shotgun is all in the shouldering of the gun. I would shoot 300 12ga targets a day in skeet practice and never had a bruised or sore shoulder.
You have to lean into the shot, and shoulder firmly, the recoil should be a shove, not a hit or slap. Take an aggressive stance, attack the target, be it clays or live birds.