i agree with all of this.
I already knew you couldn't shoot to kill for someone stealing my stuff, but of that is their intention or not; you break down my door, you're getting shot.
When I go to trial, I'll say intelligently "I felt my person, and my families lives were in danger, so I eliminated the threat with deadly force allowed by code *yadda uadda*", and I'm sticking to that.
Don't say that!!!! Way too "rehearsed". Jury will think you were reading up on what you could or could not do and just waiting for someone to kick in the door. Just tell the truth - someone kicked in your door, you yelled "holy ****!" and retrieved your weapon from wherever it was to defend yourself and did so.