Do you want rifle first ? or pistol first mainly? for rifle if you want new here is a link to MidwayUSA for a RCBS Rockchucker kit, this kit comes with the Speer reloading book. Then add dies you buy at shows or new/used for the cal you want.
I am just beginning also, I found my stuff thru local for sale sites and bought used and added to this with new also.
Do a search on this site and others. There's a ton of discussions about getting in to reloading. Go to youtube and search reloading and watch some videos so you can see some of the steps invloved. It's easier than trying to visualize something. Do a lot of research and buy one or more loading manuals to read before you buy anything else. Reading a loading manual is a must. Lyman #49 and the Lee manual are good ones.