Okay, so Dr Phil. Haven't seen much of him. We don't really watch much TV anymore and right now we aren't even paying for any type of cable/satellite.
I understand how they can say that referring to certain situations, but stating something like that as an absolute just seems strange to me considering most of the time it doesn't apply. JMO
On his show and in interrogations that is probably pretty common though.
"I did everything I could to raise them right, BUT I could have disciplined them more." Now they are in prison.
"I'm an honest person, but I've been in some trouble for..."
"I didn't lie about that night, but..."
I have no idea what you're talking about, but let's act mature here:
Most intelligent people realize that there are no absolutes in studying behavior. Just because a person looks up and to their left doesn't mean they're lying (that is considered a trait of lying as liars are trying to access a certain part of their brain.) So, you look for more than a single sign and you take into account you will need other signs as well.
For example, when Donald Trump says he will negotiate and then folds his arms and holds himself, you realize that his body language is contradicting his words. It's not until you study his previous statements and actions that you understand that all of that confirms his body language. It's the same principle when people tell you one thing and then say... but. It might not be conclusive, then again, it is worth noting and looking for other actions that support your observations.