I had a person I knew last year kill themselves like that funny thing about it she was a counselor who always stress talking to people and passing along the suicide hotline number. She was a really nice person talked to her before Christmas vacation she was talking about the future how she has all these plans. I came back to work found out died I was sad for her then about an hour later found out she shot herself then I just said the hell with her. Suicide is a very selfish thing and I have had few close friends take their own lives without any signs. For people who take their own life screw them not even worth my time to think about . With that said I do feel sorry for the hurt he is putting you through and his family. Suicide is never an option.
"Sorry if this sounds heartless"
so true.