More range time is always a good idea, but a good fit for the weapon can make all the difference in the world. Simply beefing up the grip on some of these sub-compacts solves a lot of problems for folks with larger hands.+1 on both the strike +2 extenders and the "more range time" comments
The extenders work great and look pretty clean!
The answer to most peoples problems with any firearm is more range time. If you don't own any of these pistols that will be harder but if you found one you like (the XDS) buy it an try it out for a couple of months. If you dont like it, sell it. You may lose some money but you will have gained experience.
The best gun for you is the one you shoot well! I am partial to my kimber ultra carry for this very reason, I shoot it well.
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