Because nothing existed before the big bang because there was no time or space for it to exist in. The big bang happened 13.7 billion years ago so even light itself could not have traveled more than 13.7 billion light years. (although I guess as space itself expands the light has to travel farther in proportion?)
And really? I thought that the universe came from a point of infinite density and zero volume which is the very definition of a singularity?
So you're saying that as the universe expands the matter within it is getting closer to matter in another dimension and the gravitational force is getting stronger? Ok, I can follow that. Interesting idea.
Just a guess based on not much more than wondering how it might work.